Friday, 24 April 2009

Society & Dependency

Why is it that despite having one of the best (in terms of money paid to people) welfare systems in the world do we have people remaining so dependent? Because we demand nothing back for it. Sure, they are required to fortnightly return forms showing they have been looking for work, sure they have to do a few volunteer hours here and there if they don't work, but good grief, we keep feeding it to them without working with them to change things. Let's look at MY ideal system! Each individual would have to earn say 1 point for every dollar paid to them in welfare payments, (other than those on short term medical sickness benefits). To earn those points they would have to attend a number of learning centres such as: Cooking 101...how to make minced meat go 50 different ways Basic car mechanics Basic woodworking skills Basic Home maintenance Parenting Information Sewing Food Sense ( how to shop frugally) Working with the environment How to grow your own fruit and veggies Housekeeping for the homemaker How to attend an interview (dress code, body language etc) How to write a CV Reading & Writing Sports etc etc For each attendance they obtain a certain number of points. These points equate to a dollar value to a maximum amount payable. Not only are they maintaining their payments, they are learning new skills, gaining more self confidence, self esteem, and skills. Hopefully these skills learned are observed by their children in a practical sense around their homes. We take all we know for granted. So much of who we are as adults was absorbed sometimes quite unconsciously by watching our parents, Dad fixing the door or window, taking pride in the home, mum making meals from next to nothing, structures, routines, skills. For many, they didn't have that opportunity, they weren't given the opportunity to learn for a variety of very sad reasons. This way we interrupt the cycle, we teach, we support, we enable self esteem to creep in, confidence, build in these things and you have someone willing to get out there and give it a go! Now we could also get into the conversation about the average Joe Bloggs, who expects the Government to have all the answers, to have the Government be responsible for all manner of things, however perhaps one rant is enough! Suffice to say I believe it is time we took the responsibility for our needs and wants back, became once again the provider for our daily needs.....as it was many years ago...
Just my thoughts for the day! Take care of you and yours and for those that are in Aussie - enjoy your long week-end!

17 Responses:

Wildside said...

HA! LOL!!!

Not replying to this post, but what you have in the sidebar, Molly -- I am a BIG FAN of Bobby McFerrin's talent and this song in particular! It has seems me through some tough times -- and seem to have made it out the other side OK, but in large part, thanks to Bobby's influence... 'Cause I'm such a life-long worrier who'd rather just laugh and be happy...

Wildside said...

P.S. Thanks for the reminder!!!

molly said...

Wild I love this song too, it has been one of my faves since the day I heard it....actually, it was a night...I was travelling to another town to do a nightshift nursing...I've loved it ever since!

Rest is not idleness said...

I can remember learning a lot of those things at school, and the rest as you say, watching my parents, or my grandmother or aunts. Totally agree with your idea of earning points, people need to take responsibility for themselves.
take care
Pip
I really wish I could send some rain your way, wouldn't it be great if we could do that.

molly said...

Hi Pip! I think the times are comming where more will be forced to take steps to provide for themselves in a greater manner. This economic climate will yoyo for some years to come I believe.

As for the rain, thankfully we are headed to winter in aussie, it will be arriving just as I am setting up a whole new garden!

TheCrone said...

Molly your post reminds me of a little something I once heard;

"Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country"

Shouldn't that be the underlying charter for all welfare recipients. Yes you have the right to our fantastic support system but let's make it a two way street.

I am not talking about Old Aged pensioners btw. They tend to form the bulk of our remarkable volunteer network here in Australia and I applaud their fantastic efforts.

molly said...

I'm with you L! I agree pensioners need to be exempt!

Kez said...

What a great idea Molly - I'd vote for that. It's similar to what tradies like builders have to do - earn so many points per year in training to keep their licence.

SciFiChick said...

I like your point system idea alot.
We grew up in a time where people still knew HOW to DO things. The kids coming up now know next to nothing except video games. I am so thankful I raised my kids to know how to be self-sufficent. And in doing so, I hope they will pass that along to their kids.

I'm just sayin...

molly said...

Hi Kez, I wasn't aware tradeys had to do that, good idea though!

dixiebelle said...

If I found myself in the unfortunate position of needing welfare/ support to survive, I would def. sign up for some of those education sessions. I would still want to feel like a valuable member of society, making contributions however I could...

Rinelle said...

While I think the classes you're talking about are a fantastic idea, having attended some of the job seeking classes/CV writing classes myself many years ago, they just aren't up to scratch. The trouble with running these sort of classes are finding someone with real knowledge and skills to run them.

Cwm Goch Chronicles said...

I don't necessarily agree with the system - but I have reasons.
When Hubby and I were unemployed (in that gap between graduating from Uni and finding a 'real' job) we were both for a short time on the dole (because the part-time jobs we had didn't pay enough. What really seemed unfair was that we had to fill out work diaries to show what we were doing to find work (sounds fair yeah?) well it's reasonable but not equitable. The requirements were that you had to apply for at least 6 jobs per week. ANY job. That meant that for friends of ours, they could ring 6 pizza shops (which took all of 6 minutes of their time) write those down and they received their cheque. Hubby and I were applying for University level qualified jobs - that meant a FULL ON 6-8 page applications addressing specific selection criteria for each job we applied for. Anyone who has ever done this knows how much time and effort is involved in this. WE struggled to apply for that many jobs to keep our heads above water with the dole, and doing so meant the quality of our applications probably weren't as good as they could have been because we had to be realistic in terms of how much time we could invest in them (they were 'possible' money the dole was our next meal or not.)

Can you see my point. If I was in the same position again, applying for those kinds of jobs, when would I find the time to do your courses? If I did, I'd be on the dole longer because I wouldn't be able to apply for so many jobs.

We HATED being on the dole. It's demeaning and demoralising - especially after working so hard for so long at uni and being poor all that time in the hope that it will benefit you in the long run. To top it off it would be months after that you'd hear back from the companies with a 'no thanks' if anything at all.

I know there are bludgers out there, but I think uni students need to be cut a break - the very fact that they've gone to uni shows they're serious about getting a decent job. Why would you got all that effort to live on the meagre dole after?

Forgot how upset and cross I was about this until now! yes -after today I'm letting it go!

molly said...

Hey Dixie, couldnt agree more!

Hi there Rinelle, finding excellent staff is always a challenge for employers, I agree

Nat, I can understand your stance given your experiences, however what would constitute acceptable classes etc would only be decided upon after community consultation etc and would apply across the board, no rules for some and then rules that differ for others. There would be the option of volunteering for those studying, with reduced hours required etc, lots of ways around things whilst still being pro-active in assisting those who need unemployment assistance....without making them feel like crims or overloaded

molly said...

SciFi....couldnt agree more! I too raised mine to be able to cope with whatever life throws at them, in particular how to have fun being frugal, how to be self sufficient....hopefully they will pass those skills on too!

lilyflax said...

Some people on the welfare system cant contribute to society in tangible forms because they are sick, old tired whatever. However no one likes being on the dole however there are some bluddgers out there but they are far a few between.

molly said...

Hi Lily & welcome. I agree, there are some who for various reasons cannot contribute, for those exceptions need to be made.

After working for more than a few decades in health & welfare though I would have to say there are more than a few who do not wish to contribute to their keep, and sadly as time progresses we are seeing the 2nd generations coming through with the "its owed to me" attitude....its these ppl we need to address, many dont know any different.